|Being sec C 😉|
One of my school teachers had very aptly quoted, “You don’t get what you desire but what you deserve”. He has the most amazingly quotable quotes one could ever come across. I mean this is just so true! I need to make myself deserving enough to be able to live with what I want.
So some days back, I made a new friend (who I fell for) but he happened to be straight and it felt like shit. For the first time I had fallen for someone not because of the way he looked, but because of who he was. And it really felt like love. And it felt super awesome. I was like, “This is how I want my partner to be”. The silver lining is the fact that at least I now know the kind of guy I want. Guess that is the reason I fell for him. That is how I think life becomes easier. I obviously know that I cannot expect him to love me back. But we must always learn to make the unpleasant experiences our lessons of wisdom. It is these unpleasant moments that define us. I’ve also noticed that I tend to fall for people who are hard to get. The real truth is that we are all desperate sexual beings. All of us want it as much, it’s just that it is easier for some of us to get it and more difficult for others. But I still can’t stop wanting the things that I don’t have. That is the funniest part of it all.
The easiest way of getting over your straight crush is learning to accept the truth. When I know that I would only end up wasting my energy by thinking of him over and over again, then it is best to move on and focus on better things in life. So the next time you feel horny and want to make love and have no one to make love, just breath in and look around and then read this, “Expect the best. But be prepared for the worst. :P”. Another quote by my quotable quotes waale sir. 😉